It's common to face resistance when suggesting relationship counselling. Here are some tips:
Approach the topic with enthusiasm, emphasising your love and desire to strengthen your connection.
Frame counselling as a proactive step to care for your relationship, not as a sign that something is "broken."
Acknowledge that it's normal to feel vulnerable about sharing with a stranger.
Assure your partner that counselling is a judgment-free, supportive environment.
If they're still hesitant, respect their feelings and offer to revisit the topic later.
Remember, I'm here to support both of you as allies, not to take sides.
Yes! We work with individuals on a wide range of issues, not just relationships.
In our sessions, we will:
Examine current challenges in your relationship
Focus on solutions and positive changes
Use various techniques to improve communication and connection
Help you articulate and meet each other's needs
My approach is based on scientific research and uses over 50 different tools. You'll leave each session with more knowledge, awareness, and hope for your relationship's future.
For individual counselling: Typically 6-8 sessions (45 minutes each), reviewed as we progress.
For couples counselling: Recommended 12 sessions (60 minutes each), personalised to your needs.
Counselling can help if you're:
Tired of constant arguments
Feeling disconnected from your partner
Trying to rebuild trust after infidelity
Considering separation but want to give your relationship another chance
Looking to reignite intimacy and chemistry
Generally happy but want to strengthen your connection further
Approach sessions with an open heart and mind
Complete the "homeplay" assignments between sessions
Practice new skills consistently in your daily interactions
Reach out via email if you need support between sessions
Not at all! While many seek help during difficult times, counselling can benefit couples at any stage. Whether you're:
Preparing for marriage
Looking to strengthen specific areas of your relationship
Overcoming trust issues
Simply wanting to deepen your connection
Counselling can help you build a stronger, more fulfilling relationship.
Remember, investing in your relationship is one of the best things you can do for your overall happiness and well-being!